I used to work for someone who insisted we start all projects with a vision and a high level outline to get there. He would literally insist that I don’t include or even work on any details — and casually say “You should only spend 30 minutes on this” thus giving me a deadline which […]

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I just got married and I acted as my own wedding planner. It was actually a blast to plan my own wedding since I had the luxury of time. But one thing disturbed me: the wedding site forums. Many brides-to-be ask for advice and many more vent about the drama that inevitably goes along with any wedding. It’s […]

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I’m going to broadly paint a picture — there are three types of people: Those who seek advice and don’t follow it, those who do follow it, and those who immediately tense up when it’s offered (usually unsolicited). I am part of the latter. As soon as you start trying to solve my problem with […]

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