I used to work for someone who insisted we start all projects with a vision and a high level outline to get there. He would literally insist that I don’t include or even work on any details — and casually say “You should only spend 30 minutes on this” thus giving me a deadline which […]

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I just got married and I acted as my own wedding planner. It was actually a blast to plan my own wedding since I had the luxury of time. But one thing disturbed me: the wedding site forums. Many brides-to-be ask for advice and many more vent about the drama that inevitably goes along with any wedding. It’s […]

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I enjoy activities such as reading, scuba diving, working out and traveling but these aren’t hobbies and I’m not passionate about them. I have work that lights me up and things I enjoy doing. But passion isn’t something I’ve ever felt. I’m just not built that way and for a long time it felt shameful. I spent years observing others […]

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